April 10th is National Hug Your Pet Day! It’s a sweet reminder to pause, snuggle up, and show our beloved pets just how much they mean to us. But here’s the thing—while some pets love a good squeeze, others might prefer their space. And that’s okay! 

Just like people, animals have their own personalities, boundaries, and comfort zones. So, this Hug Your Pet Day, let’s celebrate the many ways we can express affection that actually feels good for our furry, feathery, or scaly companions. 

Not All Pets Love Hugs—Here’s Why

To us, a hug might mean love, safety, and warmth. But for some pets, especially dogs and cats, a hug can feel more like restraint. For animals who rely on body language to communicate, an arm around the body can be confusing or even stressful. 

It’s important to watch their cues: 

• Are they stiffening up? 
• Turning their head away? 
• Flattening their ears or trying to move away? 

If so, a different form of affection may be more appreciated. 

5 Alternatives to Hugs That Say “I Love You”

• Gentle Pets and Scratches: Most animals love a good chin rub, ear scratch, or belly rub—when they’re in the mood for it. Let them come to you, and take note of where they enjoy being touched.
• Quality Time: Spending undistracted time together—whether it’s a slow walk, a cozy nap nearby, or a play session with their favourite toy—strengthens your bond and brings comfort to your pet.
• Talk to Them: Use your “happy voice” and let them hear your love. Pets may not understand all your words, but they absolutely understand your tone and energy.
• Treats and Enrichment: A new toy, puzzle feeder, or a tasty treat can be a fun and engaging way to say “I love you.” Enrichment activities cater to your pet’s natural instincts and bring them joy.
• Respect Their Space: Sometimes love means giving them the space they need. Letting your pet choose when to engage helps build trust and shows that you respect their needs.

For the Hug-Loving Pets Out There…

If your pet does love cuddles—go for it! Wrap them up in a cozy blanket, share the couch, or gently hold them close. Just make sure it’s mutual and comfortable for both of you. 

So go ahead—celebrate your pet today in the way that makes them happiest.